Relationships Pool

The Relationships Pool — Dating, Without the Swipe Fatigue

Gen Z is burning out on swiping. Tinder reported that 48% of Gen Z singles deleted every dating app they had in 2024, the highest rate on record for any generation, and Hinge's own data found Gen Z is the only generation to report feeling more pessimistic about love after using dating apps. The Relationships Pool is built around the part of dating that still works: an actual conversation, just moved to the front of the process instead of the end of it.

Who the Relationships Pool Is For

  • Students who want to date without the endless-swipe grind
  • Anyone who'd rather judge a five-minute conversation than a curated photo set
  • People open to dating who are also using other Pools for friends, roommates, or mentors, you don't have to choose just one

How Matching Works in the Relationships Pool

Set your preferences, join the Relationships Pool, and start with the same live two-minute video chat used across all of Groove Connects. If you both Like, you match and unlock messaging, and from there, you can schedule a longer Groove Session to keep getting to know each other before meeting up.

Safety & Consent: The Relationships Pool is where the sexual health and consent guidance on the Safety page is most relevant, worth a read before a first in-person date, alongside the general in-person meetup rules that apply across every Pool.

FAQ

There's no photo-swipe queue — every match starts with a live two-minute video chat, and full profiles only unlock after both people Like each other.

Yes — students commonly pair Relationships with School or Lifestyle, since looking for a date doesn't rule out also looking for a roommate or a workout partner.

No — dating is one of five Pools. Groove Connects is built for college students looking for any kind of real connection, and Relationships is just the one focused specifically on dating.

You unlock private messaging and the option to schedule a longer Groove Session — a second, longer video call — before deciding whether to meet in person.

Skip the swipe. Start the conversation.

Join the Relationships Pool and meet someone face-to-face from the very first chat.

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